SAVE THE DATE: Kākano Retreat
Oct
8
to 10 Oct

SAVE THE DATE: Kākano Retreat

Kākano means seed, beginning and ovum in Māori. The focus of Kākano Retreat is on decolonising birth and healing (day 1) + trans and gender diversity in birth and healing (day 2) and is open to midwives, birth workers, therapists and all healing practitioners committed to providing truly safe and expanded care.

The responsibility to be a safe space for the people we work with is beyond intellectual work; it is heart and spirit work. We are invited to practice radical honesty and love with ourselves and others in order to acknowledge the ways we have been harmful as well as harmed by white supremacy & colonialism. Divesting from colonialism means remembering and being able to find the sameness that binds us all, honouring our differences, embodying the love and acceptance that is the birth right of all people. Learning the value of “inclusivity” is a sacred responsibility that will bring us back to our spirit, back to the oneness that will ultimately co create a new world where what are currently considered privileges are once again collectively valued as universal human rights. Our hearts must be open to one another; we must learn to hear with our hearts as well as our minds. Together we ask ‘How have I internalised harmful systems of oppression? How have I upheld them and been harmed by them? Am I a truly safe space for all people? Do I want to be? And how can I begin to heal from the impacts of white supremacy and colonialism?

We are not the systems that divide us, but until we psychologically and spiritually divest from them they will be upheld and enforced.

It is obvious to those paying attention that the birth and care realms are largely unsafe places in general but particularly for marginalised peoples. Kākano seeks to challenge this by offering seeds of change and support to those working in these realms. We will be providing a safe learning environment to unpack and begin to heal from implicit bias, internalised transphobia and racism related to colonialism and white supremacy in the birth and care realms. A collaborative, safe and shame free learning experience facilitated by BIPOC, trans and Gender Diverse leaders striving to bridge the gaps between the spiritual, political and personal realities of pregnancy, birth and healing.

We will explore, unlearn, share, remember and connect through story, movement, deep listening; learning how to listen with the heart as well as the mind, through remembering the interconnectedness of all things and people, through remembering our sameness and honouring our difference.

Kākano is a three day, two night retreat held on Darug and Gundungurra land.

- All nourishing meals are provided.

- All facilitators and speakers are paid for their time, knowledge and experience.

- The local Blue Mountains community will be engaged through supporting small local businesses.

- Reparations will be made to organisations (to be confirmed) that directly support First Nations peoples and to the trans and gender diverse community.

Kākano is open to birth workers, midwives, therapists and other care providers who work closely with people, particularly birthing people. We will be exploring ways in which to change the current paradigm through workshops and panels led by BIPOC and Trans and Gender Diverse facilitators and organisers.

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Circle for Mama
Mar
7

Circle for Mama

The land has been ravaged, as fires have torn across her, as animals have perished, homes burned, people utterly distraught and lives tragically lost - it has become increasingly challenging to stay centred, to feel hopeful. Our nervous systems are fraught and fatigued. How do we make sense of such tragedy? How do we nurture hope and healing in times of suffering? We must find and create ways to share our stories, to feel heard and to alchemise our angst into healing. We must take action!

This is a circle open to anyone who identifies as a Woman and/or Mother and needs a safe space to share, to dig our hands into the Earth and honour her, to offer her our prayers, our hopes, intentions and our commitment to becoming more aware, more radical and more self responsible: because this is what she needs from us all right now.

We invite you to join us in the Blue Mountains for a short walk and sacred circle held on the land in an area of Blackheath (the location will be sent to ticket holders via email) - This will be an opportunity to co create a sacred space, to share and to set an intention on the full moon. 

We consider this to be ceremonial and ask that you dress for ceremony (whatever that means to you) 

Bring shoes for the walk but be prepared to take them off and get your bare feet on the land!

Bring water and offerings (a plate of food, fruit), a blanket and warm clothes.

$10 from each ticket will go towards Gunnawirra's "Young Aboriginal Mothers" program

Buy tickets here

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The Alchemy of Birth
Nov
23

The Alchemy of Birth

We cannot avoid the unpredictable nature of birth, it exists in it’s own realm, on it’s own time. it asks us to delve into places we have never been to offer up power we may have rarely, if ever, embodied before. While it is one of the most natural human experiences it’s reality is also wildly foreign to us until we have stepped into it’s realm. How can we feel prepared for such a thing?

We must prepare ourselves on a holistic level so we may powerfully surrender to the journey. We must enable ourselves with the tools required to effectively integrate the outcome so healing and transformation may occur postpartum.

Birth is a heroic journey. While we can cognitively comprehend the physical elements to this experience it also requires an exploration of our own unconscious landscapes, it needs us to sift through the layers of conditioning that can make us resist surrender, run from pain, feel like strangers in our bodies and fear one of our most primordial instincts: Birthing our babies.

This workshop is open to singles and couples: pregnant or planning and anyone wanting to better understand birth as a transformative rite of passage.

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LETS TALK ABOUT SEX!
Mar
24

LETS TALK ABOUT SEX!

The Sober Social presents…

LETS TALK ABOUT SEX BABY 

Join Aimee @ripsnortner from The Stoned Chrysalis

Ryan @wildmanmodernworld 

Lauren @laurenblundell.coach

& Kitty @thesobersocial 

For a proper sex education chat for all. 

Free flowing & all questions welcomed. 

Grab a ticket and we’ll see where we end up 

10am - 1:30pm 

Sunday 24th March 

$22tickets available via Eventbrite  (link to be added soon)

Snacks & beverages provided 

6/275 Harbord Road, next to office works 

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